i am back(with zero)
no idea to write
only a pinch of spirit left
to continue my blogging journey
really miss all my precious friends
and also forums
but i have lost my tracks and rythm
how to start over?
any tip?
my melancholic parts dominate currently
need somebody who is/are SANGUINE to help 'naturalize' this awful mode
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
...back with zero...
Saturday, April 18, 2009
My Sweetest Preggy Moment - Tag -
This an overdue task/tag given by miss Leen.Thank you for tagging me with this sweet tag :)
1. WAS YOUR FIRST PREGNANCY PLANNED?
Yup :)
2. WHAT WAS YOUR SECOND CHOICE NAME FOR YOUR OPPOSITE GENDER NAME?
Takde plan nama..tunggu anak lahir baru pikir.
3. WHAT WERE YOUR REACTIONS?
Happyyyyyyyyyyy...masa mula2 nampak kantung amnion masa 1st scan..mengalir air mata..tak sangka sebab PCOSer nak pregnant susah(tak subur)
4. HOW OLD WERE YOU?
23 tahun
5. HOW DID YOU FIND OUT YOU WERE PREGNANT?
Ni yang best nak share :; rasa lemah, nak bernafas susah, tak selera makan, asik pitam dalam kelas,saya pikir saya kena kanser..huhuhu
6. WHO DID YOU TELL FIRST?
Mak :)..Encik Hubbyby ada sekali masa scan utk tgk samada pregnant atau tak :)
7. DID YOU WANT TO FIND OUT THE SEX?
Actually taknak..tapi Dr.Razman terbagitau
8. DID YOU HAVE MORNING SICKNESS?
Takde hehe :)
9. WHAT DID YOU CRAVE?
western food.nasib duk kat Bangi nak cari western food senang.Hari2 makan western food, alternate la Italiannese, French dish, common western food mcm steak, chicken chop tu dah tak berapa layan, saya paling suka beef wellington (yg home made version la, takde wine) masa ni.Hubby hari2 kena masak lasagna (LASAGNE IF PLURAL) and beef wellingon.boleh kata sepanjang pregnant ni saya jadi seorang maging/karnivor (pemakan daging) hehehehehe.
10. WHO/WHAT IRRITATED YOU THE MOST?
BAu tumis minyak, bau bawang, bau perfume
muzakkar(its arabic terms for male)
12. DID YOU WISH YOU HAD THE OPPOSITE SEX ?
tak(memang nak muzakkar for the 1st child)
13. HOW MANY POUNDS DID YOU GAIN THROUGHOUT THE PREGNANCY?
43kg to 60kg dan sekarang ia kekal begitu huhuhu
14. DID YOU HAVE A BABY SHOWER?
takda...sebab tak larat.sy ada anemiae masa pregnant ni
15. DID YOU HAVE ANY COMPLICATIONS DURING YOUR PREGNANCY?
Anemiae (Hb::9) selalu pitam, piles (sgt sakit maaaa)
16. WHERE DID YOU GIVE BIRTH?
Hospital Serdang labour room.masuk2 buat VE dah 3cm opening.
mula2 tak sakit sangat, biasa2 je.lepas doc pecahkan ketuban tu mmg sakit amat.mula sakit pukul 9 bersalin selamat pukul 1400 (ngam2 org tgh tukar shift...heheh)
18. WHO DROVE YOU TO THE HOSPITAL?
Mr. Hubbyby
19. WHO WATCHED YOU GIVE BIRTH?
Mr.Hubbyby, the midwives (2)
20. WAS IT NATURAL OR C-SECTION?
natural, Alhamdulillah.
21. DID YOU TAKE MEDICINE TO EASE THE PAIN?
22. HOW MUCH DID YOUR CHILD WEIGH?
23. WHEN WAS YOUR CHILD ACTUALLY BORN ?
04 January 2007
Muhammad 'Arif Kauthar bin Ithnin
25. HOW OLD IS YOUR FIRST BORN TODAY?
2 tahun3 bulan 7 hari ( 27 months and 14 days)
26. WOULD YOU DO IT AGAIN?
udah buat pun..udah selamat pun, udah besor dah pun..(rasa macam ada yg ke-3 la..tapi kena buat urine test dulu)..hahahahahahahahahahaha
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Joomla!
tp yg sy edit tu prototype saja
thanks to layen, sy kini guna Joomla! as cms(content management systems) tools
nanti dah mahir sy akan share step by step.
insyaALLAH by May blog ni akan pindah ke hosting baru.
harap semua kawan2 akan terus setia menjadi pembaca blog ni.
jazakunnalah khayran kathira
My sunshine(s)
Monday, April 13, 2009
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Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Breastfeeding Bliss @ KLCC
Waaah terpegun 3 saat kami laki bini kat situ...selama ni kami ke Alamanda, Midvalley,Sogo dan shopping mall lain takde la Parents room yang selawa ini, malah sungguh canggih gitu (bagi kami berdua yg mmg a bit jakun la)..tengok nih..
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Kami expect dalam tu ada la beberapa parents lain tapi rupanya kosong.Kami sefamily je kat dalam tu.Masuk2 je nampak ruangan yang begitu spacious.Dalam tu boleh dibahagikan kepada 2 section ::
Changing Section ::
Sungguh luas dan bersih.Ada 6 ( ke 5..tak ingat dah) changing sink disediakan.Sangat selesa sabab ada juga disediakan ni ::
Rasanya untuk memenuhi keperuan ibu2 yang ingin membancuh FM utk baby..tapi bagi saya yg fanatik BF ni..saya anggap(read::yakin dan amat pasti) air panas disediakan untuk mensteril pump parts buat staff2 di KLCC atau ibu2 yang mengunjungi KLCC.Aci tak..Ok itu bahagian section pertama yg saya pandai2 menamakan sebagai Changing Section
Section yang kedua pula ialah ::
Breatfeeding Section ::
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Ni divider yang memisahkan seluruh bilik tu kepada bahagian untuk changing dan breastfeeding.
Di dalam bahagian ni terdapat 3 personal room for BF mommy ::
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Juga disediakan toys untuk anak2 yang lebih besar bermain sementara ibu menyusukan si adik.Ni salah satu toy yg ada.Ada 3 toys kat situ.
Tengah kami seronok men 'snap2' gambar..tetiba dgr bunyi flush dari toilet..huhu terkezit sgt2..sape pulak yg bertapa kat dalam tu sebab kami dah dekat 30 minit kat situ takda dengar bunyi,takda orang masuk pun..huhu seram jugak tu...
Saya beranikan diri membuka pintu toilet, tak sempat nak buka tetiba pintu tu terbuka sendiri..huhu lagi la seram..
Tiba2 terlihat lah susuk tubuh seorang wanita berbaju putih dan bertudung putih keluar dari toilet..kami terkejut dan dia pun terkejut..rupa2nya dia adalah cleaner kat situ..ntah apa dibuatnya lama2 dalam toilet bilik tu..mengular la tu kot..hehehe
Toilet pun not bad ::
Nasib baik saya tak sempat nak snap muka akak cleaner tu..dia pun terkedu tgk ada org dlm Parents Room tu..huhuhu..
Review tentang Parents Room KLCC :;
Selain dari hal itu, yg lain semua marvellous :)
Selain dari kami menjelajah ke Parents Room kat KLCC, hari yang sama ada pameran F1 dibuat so kami sempat snap few piccas ::
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Lepas penat2 perjalan2 tu kami singgah pi pekena ni ::
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3 LAYER TEA :: sungguh sedapppppp...tak terkata,.Plan nak makan mee udang, tapi habis semua selera tertumpah ke 3LT ni..2 kali sedut terus habis..hehehe.Harga RM4.80 kat Signature Food Court.Nanti la weekend ni kami nak pi lagi.. :)
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Kauthar makan Dory fillet dgn chips.Pastu bengan sebab ibu dgn ayah tumpang makan dory fillet tu sampai tinggal separuh..hehehe
Oh jangan lupa datang ke Smartkids 2009 event kat PWTC bermula 10-12 April ni.
Untuk makluman lanjut sila log ke :: SMARTKIDS 2009 OFFICIAL WEBSITE
Kalau ada yang nak datang, jom la kita plan turun sama2..bole la bersua muka..
(Kpd Nazhah, Kak Fid , Kak Yasmin dan Kak Non Vogue..jom la turun ramai2 teringin nak jumpa hangpa..)
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Contact Me
My YM id :: freshcool_happy@yahoo.com ( ok don't laugh - its my id since my matric at UM). Add me in your YM please.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
9 happy months
Alhamdulillah Aisyah fully BF sampai la hari ni (sepatutnya EXCLUSIVELY BREASTFEED kalau si nurse "pandai" kat NICU tu tak bagi FM pada dia).Di sebalik saya yang bermasalah PCOS dan inverted ni**l* ni, masih juga berjaya menyusukan anak sampai sekarang.Alhamdulillah syukur pada ALLAH.
Saya bukan orang senang, dari segi material maybe saya tak mampu nak bagi yang terbaik.Hanya melalui BF la saya dapat berikan something yg terbaik untuk dia (dan juga Kauthar) for the rest of their life.Saya bangga dengan pencapaian saya (walaupun ia tak seberapa) kerana saya yang tahu betapa getir perjalanan menyusu/BF saya.Hari ini melihat anak2 saya terkejar2 bila nampak saya atau B saya..saya rasa happy sgt2..anak2 sy umpama tak boleh tidur/hidup kalu tak dapat cling kat B saya..itulah gunanya B ni ALLAH jadikan..barulah saya rasakan B saya berbakti/dan berguna.Selama ni ia macam sekadar ada kat sini tanpa mempunyai peranan penting..hari ini ia 'nadi' anak saya.TQ my B :)
Jom tengok gambar2 Aisyah Mardhiyyah sepanjang 9 bulan ,8 bulan la..sebab gambar latest umo 9 bulan takde.Yang latest ialah gambar kat kenduri adik saya masa dia masih umo 8 bulan.
30 days old :: 5.5 kg
2 months old :: baru discharged dari ward, terus cukur kepala. Lepas dari ni ada 4 kali kena masuk ward lagi.Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Feeding choice for infants
1. breastmilk directly from mother's breast
2. expressed breastmilk from the infant's mother
3. donor breastmilk
4. appropriate breastmilk substitute
UNICEF, accessed Oct, 2005
***3. donor breastmilk (ibu susuan : directly atau by EBM )
nak selit::
sebelum arwah opah saya meninggal saya sempat sembang dengan dia tentang hal menyusu anak2.Sebab saya nak korek ape2 ilmu penyusuan dari super-veterans mommy.
Opah saya cerita, dulu lepas je lahirkan anak 1st (ayah saya) nurse suruh bagi susu tin.Saya heran sangat sebab zaman dulu pun dah ada susu tin and nape sejak dahulu kala lagi mentality kite dah dijajah dengan susu substitute of breastmilk..?
pastu lepas di tanya lebih lanjut 9saya nak tau brand ape susu tin yg opah sy bagi) rupa2nya susu tin yang opah saya bagi kat ayah saya ialah susu cap junjung hahaahhaa....kesian ayah saya...patut la sekarang dia ada diabetes.
Moral of the story :;
- Jangan bagi anak susu condensed milk !! (rasenye takde org buat yg ni lg kan)
- Jangan jadi orang tak berilmu.Arwah opah saya tu memang la tak salah sebab zaman dia dulu mana la nak cari ilmu penyusuan dah la family pun tak kuat nak suruh BF, pastu arwah tak reti baca sebab zaman dia dulu zaman Jepun.
- Cari lah ilmu penyusuan banyak2 sebelum melahirkan anak.Saya sangat suka membantu ibu2 gbaru/ bakal ibu untuk berkongsi pengalaman peyusuan yang saya cilok sikit2 mommies2 di susuibu.com
- Malu bertanya sesat jalan..
Maafkan saya kerana merapu meraban...
Friday, January 16, 2009
Why are Jews so powerful?
Why are Jews so powerful?
By: Dr Farrukh Saleem
(The writer is an Islamabad-based freelance columnist)
There are only 14 million Jews in the world; seven million in the Americas, five million in Asia, two million in Europe and 100,000 in Africa. For every single Jew in the world there are 100 Muslims. Yet, Jews are more than a hundred times more powerful than all the Muslims put together. Ever wondered why?
Jesus of Nazareth was Jewish.
Albert Einstein, the most influential scientist of all time and TIME magazine's 'Person of the Century', was a Jew.
Sigmund Freud -- id, ego, and superego -- the father of psychoanalysis was a Jew.
So were Karl Marx, Paul Samuelson and Milton Friedman.
Here are a few other Jews whose intellectual output has enriched the whole humanity:
Jonas Salk developed the first polio vaccine.
Alert Sabin developed the improved live polio vaccine.
Gertrude Elion gave us a leukaemia fighting drug.
Baruch Blumberg developed the vaccination for Hepatitis B.
Paul Ehrlich discovered a treatment for syphilis (a sexually transmitted disease).
Elie Metchnikoff won a Nobel Prize in infectious diseases.
Bernard Katz won a Nobel Prize in neuromuscular transmission.
Andrew Schally won a Nobel in endocrinology (disorders of the endocrine system; diabetes, hyperthyroidism)...
Aaron Beck founded Cognitive Therapy (psychotherapy to treat mental disorders, depression and phobias).
Gregory Pincus developed the first oral contraceptive pill.
George Wald won a Nobel for furthering our understanding of the human eye.
Stanley Cohen won a Nobel in embryology (study of embryos and their development). Willem Kolff came up with the kidney dialysis machine.
Over the past 105 years, 14 million Jews have won 15-dozen Nobel Prizes while
only three Nobel Prizes have been won by 1.4 billion Muslims (other than Peace Prizes).
Why are Jews so powerful?
Stanley Mezor invented the first micro-processing chip.Leo Szilard developed the first nuclear chain reactor.
Peter Schultz, optical fibre cable;
Charles Adler, traffic lights;
Benno Strauss, Stainless steel;
Isador Kisee sound movies;
Emile Berliner, telephone microphone and
Charles Ginsburg, videotape recorder.
Famous financiers in the business world who belong to Jewish faith include
Ralph Lauren (Polo),
Levis Strauss (Levi's Jeans),
HowardSchultz (Starbuck's),
Sergey Brin (Google),
Michael Dell (Dell Computers),
Larry Ellison (Oracle),
Donna Karan (DKNY),
Irv Robbins (Baskin & Robbins) and
Bill Rosenberg (Dunkin Donuts).
Richard Levin, President of Yale University, is a Jew.
So are Henry Kissinger (American secretary of state), Alan Greenspan (fed chairman under Reagan, Bush, Clinton and Bush), Joseph Lieberman, Madeleine Albright (American secretary of state), Maxim Litvinov (USSR foreign Minister), David Marshal (Singapore's first chief minister), Isaac Isaacs (Governor General of Australia), Benjamin Disraeli (British statesman and author), Yevgeny Primakov (Russian PM), Jorge Sampaio (President of Portugal), Herb Gray (Canadian deputy PM), Pierre Mendes (French PM), Michael Howard (British home secretary), Bruno Kreisky (chancellor of Austria) and Robert Rubin (former American secretary of treasury).
In the media, famous Jews include Wolf Blitzer (CNN), Barbara Walters (ABC News), Eugene Meyer (Washington Post), Henry Grunwald (editor-in-chief Time), Katherine Graham (publisher of The Washington Post), Joseph Lelyyeld (Executive editor, The New York Times), and MaxFrankel (New York Times).
Can you name the most beneficent philanthropist in the history of the world? The name is George Soros, a Jew, who has so far donated a colossal $4 billion most of which has gone as aid to scientists and universities around the world. Second to George Soros is Walter Annenberg, another Jew, who has built a hundred libraries by donating an estimated $2 billion.
At the Olympics, Mark Spitz set a record of sorts by winning seven gold medals. Lenny Krayzelburg is a three- time Olympic gold medallist. Spitz, Krayzelburg and Boris Becker are all Jewish.
Did you know that Harrison Ford, George Burns, Tony Curtis, Charles Bronson, Sandra Bullock, Billy Crystal, Woody Allen, Paul Newman, Peter Sellers, Dustin Hoffman, Michael Douglas, Ben Kingsley, Kirk Douglas, William Shatner, Jerry Lewis and Peter Falk are all Jewish?
As a matter of fact, Hollywood itself was founded by a Jew. Among directors and producers, Steven Spielberg, Mel Brooks, Oliver Stone, Aaron Spelling (Beverly Hills 90210), Neil Simon (The Odd Couple), Andrew Vaina (Rambo 1/2/3), Michael Man (Starsky and Hutch), Milos Forman (One flew over the Cuckoo's Nest), Douglas Fairbanks (The thief of Baghdad) and Ivan Reitman (Ghostbusters) are all Jewish.
To be certain, Washington is the capital that matters and in Washington the lobby that matters is The American Israel Public Affairs Committee, or AIPAC. Washington knows that if PM Ehud Olmert were to discover that the earth is flat, AIPAC will make the 109th Congress pass a resolution congratulating Olmert on his discovery.
William James Sidis, with an IQ of 250-300, is the brightest human who ever existed. Guess what faith did he belong to?
So, why are Jews so powerful?
Answer: Education.
Why are Muslims so powerless?
There are an estimated 1,476,233,470 Muslims on the face of the planet: one billion in Asia, 400 million in Africa, 44 million in Europe and six million in the Americas. Every fifth human being is a Muslim; for every single Hindu there are two Muslims, for every Buddhist there are two Muslims and for every Jew there are one hundred Muslims.
Ever wondered why Muslims are so powerless?
Here is why:
There are 57 member-countries of the Organisation of Islamic Conference (OIC), and all of them put together have around 500 universities; one university for every three million Muslims. The United States has 5,758 universities and India has 8,407. In 2004, Shanghai Jiao Tong University compiled an 'Academic Ranking of World Universities', and intriguingly, not one university from Muslim-majority states was in the top-500.
As per data collected by the UNDP, literacy in the Christian world stands at nearly 90 per cent and 15 Christian- majority states have a literacy rate of 100 per cent. A Muslim-majority state, as a sharp contrast, has an average literacy rate of around 40 per cent and there is no Muslim-majority state with a literacy rate of 100 per cent. Some 98 per cent of the 'literates' in the Christian world had completed primary school, while less than 50 per cent of the 'literates' in the Muslim world did the same. Around 40 per cent of the 'literates' in the Christian world attended university while no more than two per cent of the 'literate s' in the Muslim world did the same.
Muslim-majority countries have 230 scientists per one million Muslims. The US has 4,000 scientists per million and Japan has 5,000 per million. In the entire Arab world, the total number of full-time researchers is 35,000 and there are only 50 technicians per one million Arabs (in the Christian world there are up to 1,000 technicians per one million). Furthermore, the Muslim world spends 0.2 per cent of its GDP on research and development, while the Christian world spends around five per cent of its GDP.
Conclusion:
The Muslim world lacks the capacity to produce knowledge.
Daily newspapers per 1,000 people and number of book titles per million are two indicators of whether knowledge is being diffused in a society. In Pakistan, there are 23 daily newspapers per 1,000 Pakistanis while the same ratio in Singapore is 360. In the UK, the number of book titles per million stands at 2,000 while the same in Egypt is 20.
Conclusion: The Muslim world is failing to diffuse knowledge.
Exports of high technology products as a percentage of total exports are an important indicator of knowledge application. Pakistan's exports of high technology products as a percentage of total exports stands at one per cent. The same for Saudi Arabia is 0.3 per cent; Kuwait, Morocco, and Algeria are all at 0.3 per cent while Singapore is at 58 percent.
Conclusion: The Muslim world is failing to apply knowledge.
Why are Muslims powerless?
Because we aren't producing knowledge.
Why are Muslims powerless?
Because we aren't diffusing knowledge.
Why are Muslims powerless?
Because we aren't applying knowledge.And, the future belongs to knowledge-based societies.
Interestingly, the combined annual GDP of 57 OIC-countries is under $2 trillion. America, just by herself, produces goods and services worth $12 trillion; China $8 trillion, Japan $3.8 trillion and Germany $2.4 trillion (purchasing power parity basis).
Oil rich Saudi Arabia, UAE, Kuwait and Qatar collectively produce goods and services (mostly oil) worth $500 billion; Spain alone produces goods and services worth over $1 trillion, Catholic Poland $489 billion and Buddhist Thailand $545 billion. (Muslim GDP as a percentage of world GDP is fast declining).
So, why are Muslims so powerless?
Answer: Lack of education!
Thursday, January 1, 2009
Family Gathering 2008
Another thing was about our brilliant son Arif Kauthar.He refused to get into the sea,he cried so loud untill his face turned red.
That was quite strange because he actually loves swimming ,however that is the first time he swims at the sea.All this while he swimmed at the swimming pool.
At night,mommy turned a bit unhealthy,she claimed that she is having ocean-sickness when the boat stucked on the sea.She vomits and refused to eat(just like the early trimester of pregnancy-oopss we still didn't perform the UPT to confirm this..)
After having a morning bath at the sea,we planned to go to the Ostrich Farm.Here are some piccas of our visit to the PD OSTRICH PARK .We tried the ostrich satay,its delicious :)
Mommy is an expert canoe rider,she canoes since 14 years old.That day she was the one who taught her uncles and cousins on the correct way to canoe.
P/S :Mommy/ibukauthar is currently having severe Chikungunya,she only laid on bed for the whole day.I hired a temporary nurse to attend her needs.Pleas pray for her to regain health as soon as possible.Apart of that,her milk drops drastically...dunno what to do..



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